Learn some Kama Sutra Given that the world's oldest guide on love, Sex and spirituality is our home production, we Indians should be most adept at the subject. Well, the book will never go out of fashion and relevance. Plus, its sex chapters have often been plucked out and circulated on the internet, books and on DVDs. Apart from positions, it has some useful advice on behaviour, kissing and touching as well. Revisit old moves If you've stopped making certain moves in bed because they've bothered you or your partner, find out exactly why it occurs and get over it. Also, if you think you're too 'grown up' for some moves you used to make with your college flame, a total recall would be good fun. Make a to-do list We're not saying stick post-its on the ceiling but you and your partner can set a rough timetable, right. Once a month, once a week, whenever suits you – it is important to make to-do list of styles, fantasies – whatever's fun. Have more foreplay Women still complain of insufficient foreplay when it comes to sex. Here's a fact: women who get at least 20 minutes of foreplay are 80 per cent more likely to have an orgasm. Add the funk Sex has become a mechanical activity for many stressed couples. One of you – whoever's less stressed – can change the way you make love (at least for one night, for starters). Suggestions: Forget the ice cubes cliché, get a bottle of wine instead; play raunchy Hindi numbers, encourage dirty chatter in bed. Go on an adventurous date A weekend trip to an exotic resort can just get the fun back into your sex. Sometimes, a break in monotony is just what your brain needs to get energised. Take to mountain-climbing, paragliding or simply walk down the beach. Overcome your fears Is there anything you or your mate want to try but breaks into a cold sweat attempting it. There is nothing as liberating as being terrified of something and overcoming it. Break one of your taboos Similarly, if you've imposed any rules or taboos on yourself because of fear, lack of knowledge or social pressure, break it. It is perhaps the most crucial resolution for your relationship. It seems basic, but when was the last time you discussed sex with him/her. Speaking up is one of the most important ingredients of a healthy sex life. Kama Sutra