These tips will help you understand yourself, as well as your partner, and may serve to bring the two of you closer together. Kama Sutra Written almost two millennia ago, it seems the Kama Sutra has made its way to popular culture and couples are aching to use it to enhance their bedroom antics. And although the sexual positions themselves are only a minute part of the book, I'm sure you're interested in everything that comes before them. The Kama Sutra makes it clear that you should make it a point to pay attention to every inch of your lover's body. Don't leave anything out and don't place so much importance on the actual sex itself. The act of lovemaking in its entirety should be thoroughly enjoyed. Be totally aware of your senses; smell, taste, touch, hear, and see her. But before you begin, you have to prepare for such a vivid experience by understanding yourself (and her for that matter). Man can be classified as the hare man, the bull man and the horse man according to the size of his, um, lingam (I think you know where this is headed). But fear not, woman too can also be classified as a doe, a mare or a female elephant depending on the depth of her yoni . All this means that there are three equal unions that can exist between a man and a woman depending on their sizes, and six unequal ones. Good luck deciphering which one you are, or better yet, which one she is.